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It is best to start the discussion about introducing new toys in a caring and non-judgmental manner. Otherwise, your partner might feel like they’re being judged or that their current sexual relationship isn’t sufficient.
Begin using a wand vibration device, such as Lelo’s Lily 2, designed for shared pleasure. Or, opt for a chained clamp like Adam & Eve to stimulate the nipples for bondage-like exploration.
1. Sex Games
If you and your partner are having a hard time adjusting to the bedroom or in the relationship in general, sex games are a great way to bring things to life without having to discuss sexual relations. These games for flirting can be a great way to discover more about one another and inspire curiosity and sexual desire.
Try sexy games like “Truth or Dare” to break the ice and create intimacy. In this game, you’ll utilize different sexy tools such as pleasure products or household objects to test them out on your partner in different positions, such as on the thighs or on the neck. The receiver is required to select between A and B in order to help the giver develop their skills and to discover their sexual desires.
This game can also be an excellent opportunity to explore your sexual fantasies and your kinks. For instance, the game gives the player the chance to discover their partner’s kinks through scat play, foot worship or role-playing, and incorporate these into future sex routines.
If you want to have a more competitive aspect Try the bedroom battles card game. This fun and steamy game comes with a timer a die and two sets that come with sexy instructions such as “grab their feet” and “take them on by the hair.”
2. Sex Toys
Sexy toys can be enjoyable for couples of all genders. Some of the most loved couple sex toys include wearables, such as cockrings and vibrators that can be positioned on the vagina or the penis. These devices are designed to target specific pleasure areas and ease the work load for partners, which could make foreplay more enjoyable.
Some couples like to add vibrators which can be used for penetration. There are also options that are perfect for masturbation. The Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo, which is a hands-free device worn by a man is able to be positioned over the partner’s erection to generate vibrations. It has six levels of intensity and is water-proof. This means that it can be used in the bathroom, or for sexual activity outside the bedroom.
The Womanizer vibrator wand is another alternative for penetrative play. It comes in a range of skin tones and has a stimulation device at both ends. The wand can be bent into a C-shape or an S-form and has the ability to bend, which makes it easier to target specific erogenous zones.
adult toys such as the packer and dildo by New York toy adult Collective are ideal for both partners to use for oral sex or masturbation. Frost is a fan because they are posable and come in a range of sizes that will fit both circumcised and non-circumcised women. Frost also recommends Shilo from the brand made of a posable latex-free material and features a G-spot head, as well as prostate stimulation.
3. Sex Accessories
Some accessories might seem too “sexy” for the bedroom, but when used in the right way they can increase the excitement. These bedroom accessories, especially when it comes to hands-free tools for masturbation are able to add a bit of the heat to sexual exploration.
A wand vibrator is a well-known sex tool for couples. It’s easy to use and ideal for people who prefer less threatening stimulation. This Manta Ray vibration from New York Toy Collective is the most popular among gay couples. It has a stimulating curved surface on one side, and a smooth spherical-like texture on the other. This couples-friendly vibrator that is hands-free also comes with a range of intensity levels and rechargeable batteries which can last up to four hours.
Other cool accessories for sex that couples can use include the couple’s massager by Dame the shape is as a hood that resembles a clitoral one and is a sleeve with ribbed texture that stimulates the clit, G-spot and penis. It is made from medical-grade materials and is a textured silicone material that is extremely soft to touch.
Handcuffs may be a bit too “sexual” for the bedroom, but if used in a safe and playful way they can be incredibly exciting. This white and fuzzy set by Honey Birdette is great for couples who aren’t used to couple’s handcuffs or BDSM experts. It’s fun and playful but also adds serious strangling to your bedroom play.
4. Sex Gear
There are a variety of ways to have fun exploring the erogenous zones with your partner. Sex games for couples are offered in a wide range of thrilling options that range from hot wax play to vibrating rings and adult toys for couples clitoral sounds. You can rest assured that you’re getting the best adult toys sex toys by choosing from brands like We-Vibe and Lelo.
Sex toys come in a wide range of prices, so shopping for them with an open mind is important. Frost says that a strap-on sex toy is “the ultimate couple’s toy.” Frost is a fan of harnesses made by SpareParts that are simple to put to remove and put on using Velcro and feature an elastic silicone o-ring which doesn’t move around. He also mentions that he’s found that a harness is perfect for pegging or consensual power exchange.
OhMiBod’s vibrating thong is another item that couples will love. The wearable vibrator Adult toys for couples is USB rechargeable and provides stimulation with a comfortable fit. A remote control lets you to alter the intensity. It also has a dildo holder, which is ideal for arousing your partner’s clitoris as well as the vulva during a masturbation. You can also go for the more traditional option and get this set of red handcuffs with furry lining from Bellesa Boutique. The cuffs restrain the wrists and arms, and can be tightened if needed.